The focused procrastinator
who gets shit done
A struggle - free approach to procrastination
A 3-month Therapeutic Coaching journey
to take you from thinly spread and indecisive
to focused and effective
You've got so many creative ideas and yet nothing is happening!!
You feel like you have one foot on the accelerator and one foot on the brake at the same time.
No matter how hard you try to be productive you still:
Feel frustrated - You wake up with a ton of creative ideas and at the end of the day you look back and think "what the f*ck did I do today?"
Compare yourself with others - You look around you and see all the successful entrepreneurs with incredible programs, earning 6 figures and you think "I am such a failure"
Experience inner conflict - There is a part of you that has some brilliant ideas and another part of you that has you just quickly checking your social media account before you start (we all know how that turns out)
I get it,
You have been trying for so long to be focused and decisive
You have purchased (and not yet finished applying or even reading)
Getting things done
The 7 habits of highly successful people
Think like DaVinci
The power of habit
You’ve tried different techniques like
the pomodoro technique
the 80/20 rule, prioritizing
having a morning routine
You’ve downloaded project management tools like
You feel excited about trying something new and then disappointed when you discover that it doesn't work for you.
Nothing seems to work for more than a few days or weeks and then it is just back to the same old struggle of trying to force yourself to get things done.
You knew that being a business owner would be challenging, yet
You had hoped it would offer you some freedom and yet you feel more stuck than ever.
You look around and are thinking "Am I the only one who can't seem to get things done?"
There seems to be something blocking you from even starting.
You are Thinking
Maybe I should just go and get a normal job where I get told what to do and I don’t have to think ( and then NO WAY - I can’t stand to lose my autonomy)
I started my own business to find freedom and I don’t feel free at all (In fact I feel quite stuck).
You’ve tried different eradicate procrastination programs and nothing has worked (maybe I am just doomed to a life of insignificance)
You throw your hands up in the air proclaiming that you are defective in some way. Nothing seems to work for you.
Why has none of it worked?
Because you have not been dealing with this challenge at the core. All of these philosophies and strategies are surface level solutions that only work for people who already have the tendency to be focused and organized.
You know that there is something in you blocking you from being focused and productive.
You just don’t know how to change it.
You’ve tried bulldozing past the blockages, removing the blockages, ignoring the blockages now it
TRUTH: You cannot get rid of those parts of you that are hesitating or holding back from you manifesting your greatest creations. When you try to bypass or ignore those parts of you, they just come back stronger leading to even more frustration and hopelessness.
Another hard truth:
You have been trying to do this on your own for some time now. Pushing through, struggling, judging yourself for not getting the results. Comparing yourself to others and their level of success. Feeling even more lonely and desperate.
What no one told you is that
NO AMOUNT OF COURSES, PROGRAMS, READING, TECHNIQUES WILL WORK
NO AMOUNT OF SELF LOATHING, SELF CRITICISM AND FORCING OF YOURSELF TO BECOME SOMEONE THAT YOU ARE NOT WILL WORK
You need to deal with this issue at its core. Deal with it at its foundational level. From there your creativity will begin to flow naturally, and you will not need any technique or strategy(even though at this point they will be more likely to work because you have removed the blockages that were getting in the way)
You would SO much love to have
freedom from the internal push-pull that has you frozen
clarity around what to do next
enough focus to actually begin doing what you had in mind to do
enough perseverance to finish what you started
You know that you are pretty damn good at what you do, and yet you just can't seem to take the necessary steps to get your business off the ground and say:
"HERE I AM"
Something is blocking you from showing up in the world. Something in you is saying "See me, but please don't see me"
What you have to offer is a gift to the world. People could ............................................
Hi I’m Nic
and if you are anything like me you have struggled for years to get your business of the ground. I have gotten so excited about many GREAT ideas and whenever it came time to implement them. SCREEECH. Something in me put on the breaks. I read various books on productivity and tried out numerous techniques. Nothing worked more than a couple days. Max.
It was only when I dealt with the deeper issues at the core of my tendencies to lack focus and put things off that I experienced a fundamental and lasting shift.
I won't say that I am completely free of procrastination and 100% focused 100% of time time. If I did I probably wouldn't be human. I can say that I have found away to meet myself with much more compassion which has resulted in me experiencing mush more inner space and freedom. The result is that I am much more focused and much less harsh on myself when I am not so focused.
The sessions with Nic have been deeply transformational for me. I keep being amazed by his patience, strong space-holding capacity, presence and willingness to see and be with all parts of me.
The process is gentle, yet so powerful, and through it, we quickly cut to the core of the issue and find the unmet need beneath. I am very grateful for the ease, flow, presence, calm and joy I have experienced as a result.
Finding alignment between the parts of me that have been at war with each other gives me access to a whole new level of energy!
Nic is helping me come home to myself and integrate my inner world, and I am so, so grateful and in awe of this powerful and healing process.
I would strongly recommend working with Nic!
Trauma Therapist & Coach
Nic is an amazing IFS Practitioner. Each time I had a session with him I felt safe, heard, seen and connected. He knows how to create and hold a space of compassionate listening and patience. I recommend him wholeheartedly.
Retreat facilitator & NVC trainer
Nic has coached me on several occasions on specifically vulnerable and traumatic experiences and patterns in me.
What strikes me about Nic's coaching is the level of presence, attention, compassion, patience and precision that I experience.
I have experienced intense coaching sessions with many outstanding coaches and very few come close to the depth that I experience with Nic.
It’s a very joyful and deeply healing experience to be guided by Nic and I would recommend his coaching and guidance to anyone who is interested in deep support of healing and self-discovery
TEACH TECHNIQUES AND STRATEGIES THAT DON'T WORK FOR EVERYONE
MOST OTHER PROGRAMS
TRY TO USE BEHAVIOUR CHANGE TECHNIQUES TO TRICK YOU INTO CHANGING
INCREASE INNER CONFLICT BY CELEBRATING CERTAIN ASPECTS OF YOU WHILST DENYING OTHER ASPECTS
CONTRIBUTE TO AN INCREASE IN SELF CRITICISM WHEN YOU FAIL AGAIN AT BEING ORGANISED
SUPPORT HEALING AT THE CORE OF THE PROBLEM
THIS PROGRAM WILL
NOT TRY TO GET RID OF OR DENY ANY ASPECTS OF YOURSELF
SUPPORT YOU TO LEARN TO MEET YOURSELF WITH COMPASSION
IS GENTLE AND YET POWERFUL
CONTRIBUTE TO A SHIFT FROM SELF CRITICISM TO SELF LOVE
Other programs will try to change your behaviour or use specific techniques to get you motivated again.
We all know that these methods(getting things done and tiny habits) are not sustainable because most of us that have attempted to implement any of these strategies don’t end up following through. What these other programs don’t consider is that the reason for your lack of motivation is not because you have bad habits or don’t know your purpose.
Of course, learning a productivity technique can be helpful, but the solution to lasting transformation lies deeper than trying to change your behaviour.
Our personalities consist of different parts, and each of those parts plays a role in driving our behaviours. By trying to force ourselves to be different, we just contribute to even more inner turmoil and self-criticism.
HERE'S MY PROMISE TO YOU
I'll GUIDE YOU STEP BY STEP THROUGH A PROCESS OF UNDERSTANDING HOW YOUR MIND WORKS AND HEALING THOSE PARTS OF YOU THAT ARE HOLDING YOU BACK.
7 Private sessions of 90 minutes with me
Meditations to support awareness